tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424698162327097126.post6937836578275524674..comments2024-01-02T10:16:13.926+00:00Comments on The Thoughtful Dresser: What is a girl to do?Linda Granthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09126115924247248057noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424698162327097126.post-15892071311920525072008-01-06T18:20:00.000+00:002008-01-06T18:20:00.000+00:00Interesting article, and it's very illuminating ho...Interesting article, and it's very illuminating how location can make a difference in clothing selection. Although I suspect that the extreme of high fashion would not translate the same from the Vogue office to another office in London. My only quibble is that I disagree that it's easier to dress yourself at 50 than it is at 30. I'm 41, and I see no light at the end of this dark fashion tunnel -- at least if I don't want to fall into a fashion stereotype of a 50-year old woman.Ginahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13631687084204022574noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424698162327097126.post-11842365908578746962008-01-06T00:45:00.000+00:002008-01-06T00:45:00.000+00:00"...but I did take against the fact that it was un..."...but I did take against the fact that it was unwearable for someone like me."<BR/><BR/>Oh dear - this has been my problem for as long as I can remember trying to buy clothes. From the time I was a young girl and just always a little too tall for everything... buying bigger things so they would hang down longer.<BR/><BR/>Does this mean Vogue passed me by when I was 10? :-)Teresahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14943982798071884004noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424698162327097126.post-55230875177383248522008-01-05T16:36:00.000+00:002008-01-05T16:36:00.000+00:00I think her issue is less her age and more her cha...I think her issue is less her age and more her change in situation, honestly. If she stayed at Vogue into her 50's I highly doubt she'd stop wearing all her unusual clothing, but she moved to a village in Suffolk and I think that is reason enough to rethink a wardrobe that involves leopard-print and Ferragamo. But then, I live in the Wild West so maybe I'm just simplifying it into a city mouse/country mouse situation.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424698162327097126.post-34075543138112273932008-01-04T19:09:00.000+00:002008-01-04T19:09:00.000+00:00Frankly - I think it get tough in your 30's and ju...Frankly - I think it get tough in your 30's and just stays that way. By your 50's (entering next year for me) you just get used to the problem. This is precisely why I sew most of my wardrobe! Great article.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424698162327097126.post-12763140728913445832008-01-04T14:56:00.000+00:002008-01-04T14:56:00.000+00:00Great article! This part also resonated with me: M...Great article! This part also resonated with me: <I>My vintage leopard print blouse looks less jokey Cavalli and a bit Barry Manilow. My trusted Ferragamo patents aren't retro-quirky any more: they make me look like my mum. My jewellery, which used to be witty, now looks tacky.</I><BR/><BR/>Fashion can be like a language that's just jibberish to those who don't speak it. That probably comes across as snobby, but I don't mean it that way. In certain environments, I can wear some things in a quirky/ironic way and feel totally appropriate; in others I probably would appear a bit unhinged.<BR/><BR/>When she says that it's easier to dress in your 30's than your 50's, I think she's buying in a bit to the notion that we want to dress more conservatively as we hit that mid-century mark. As maria noted, and as Linda's discussed many times, "'t'ain't necessarily so."Susan Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16005855250089328310noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424698162327097126.post-78852102966878514062008-01-04T14:44:00.000+00:002008-01-04T14:44:00.000+00:00I read that beautifully-written article in the Gua...I read that beautifully-written article in the Guardian earlier this morning (our time) - my only quibble is with her final comment that it is easier to dress in one's 50s than one's 30s. That might be true for a businesswoman or MP, not for an artist-type. I'm 15 years older than Jo Craven and of course facing the oldest-person in a dot.com at one client's... but I do NOT want to look either like their mum or a banker. <BR/><BR/>Happy 2008 to the Thoughtful Dresser and everyone who reads or comments on this board, by the way.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424698162327097126.post-22238436408816282802008-01-04T14:32:00.000+00:002008-01-04T14:32:00.000+00:00Indeed a sobering moment. I recently had a similar...Indeed a sobering moment. I recently had a similar moment (not that I've ever been in the fashion industry) when I finally tried on the fabulous hot pink Lanvin billowy shift as it came on sale at Barney's. I had such high hopes but alas, they were dashed in a sweaty instant in the dressing room.Alice Olivehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09726631444593912661noreply@blogger.com