tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424698162327097126.post5069193211697343060..comments2024-01-02T10:16:13.926+00:00Comments on The Thoughtful Dresser: The mutton debate goes on and onLinda Granthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09126115924247248057noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424698162327097126.post-91864795878819317632007-12-03T19:13:00.000+00:002007-12-03T19:13:00.000+00:00What about long hair? Supposedly another pitfall t...What about long hair? Supposedly another pitfall that we might fall into over 50ish. I've got long hair at the moment -my parents (aged 79 and 84) think it's quite shocking!Mrs Folanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06485187825231849060noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424698162327097126.post-14611526159484119972007-11-23T17:12:00.000+00:002007-11-23T17:12:00.000+00:00Linda - yes, I wish I had had that book when my Mu...Linda - yes, I wish I had had that book when my Mum "went down" in 2005 - it probably would have made dealing with all the "healthcare providers" (who kept babbling about Alzheimers to me - I had to do all the research myself)a lot easier. Needless to say, the book is on my "wish list" this year - if no one gifts me with it, I'll take it in hand myself. *g*Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424698162327097126.post-86502068596305635472007-11-22T23:20:00.000+00:002007-11-22T23:20:00.000+00:00I want to be there when these barely-hatched fashi...I want to be there when these barely-hatched fashionistas lay down the law about who can wear leather to Joan Jett, Debbie Harry, and Marianne Faithfull... from a safe distance.Jonquilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00394073543168209042noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424698162327097126.post-56954964144739212522007-11-22T15:06:00.000+00:002007-11-22T15:06:00.000+00:00I think that the 6 is the important number, you ca...I think that the 6 is the important number, you can attach it any prefix and know that you are something6.<BR/><BR/>The anti-greige twilight uniform sounds like what I'd wear in the highly unlikely event that I found myself living in a village.Linda Granthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09126115924247248057noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424698162327097126.post-22082689474853601952007-11-22T14:56:00.000+00:002007-11-22T14:56:00.000+00:00I don't think I'd have worn a leather jacket at an...I don't think I'd have worn a leather jacket at any age - but that's just because I don't like leather, except on feet. <BR/><BR/>My dilemma about what to what to wear arises not simply from the fact that I am now officially old - and have less disposable income - but because I live in a remote village where no-one gives a stuff about clothes. <BR/><BR/>Most of my neighbours exist in a sort of greige twilight and give you funny looks if you venture out in anything other than a fleece, jogging trousers and trainers (or wellies). I refuse to join the grow old boringly club but country living imposes certain constraits eg the preponderance of mud. Right now I'm wearing my good old reliable ensemble of well-cut jeans, a white shirt and a Per Una cardigan.<BR/><BR/>This must be one of the few places in England where you can buy something from M&S and know that no-one else in the vicinity will be wearing it. Or anything from M&S come to that. The Eastex section of the nearest department store is about as far as the locals will go.<BR/><BR/>So your blog, Linda, is a rather wonderful oasis. A guilty pleasure about which I feel no guilt whatsoever.60GoingOn16https://www.blogger.com/profile/14216400213406672396noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424698162327097126.post-41970653688250197702007-11-22T09:06:00.000+00:002007-11-22T09:06:00.000+00:00Well, Agnes b has never made a garment I could wea...Well, Agnes b has never made a garment I could wear. I have a quite angular size 8 friend who wears her and always looks great. Joseph is the same: I could lose all the weight I wanted but I'd never be the right shape for his clothes. <BR/><BR/>Give me Nicole Farhi any day!<BR/><BR/>And I love that black leather jacket. It seems to me suitable for anyone of any age. The red thing is just appalling.Ms Baroquehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01836227454899083962noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424698162327097126.post-84413713081737463442007-11-22T08:46:00.000+00:002007-11-22T08:46:00.000+00:00Twollin, do you know the book I wrote about my mot...Twollin, do you know the book I wrote about my mother's multi infact dementia?Linda Granthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09126115924247248057noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424698162327097126.post-54976363086068867912007-11-22T03:08:00.000+00:002007-11-22T03:08:00.000+00:00Thank you. I have always believed that when you w...Thank you. I have always believed that when you wear the clothes and things you love, the glow of happiness makes the outfit, whether it's officially becoming or not.Jonquilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00394073543168209042noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424698162327097126.post-41042114830466108922007-11-22T02:42:00.000+00:002007-11-22T02:42:00.000+00:00When I made the above comment, I was referring to ...When I made the above comment, I was referring to the "Leather Jacket over 40" debate.Elizabethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03406942482508439839noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424698162327097126.post-61707657356807755462007-11-22T02:41:00.000+00:002007-11-22T02:41:00.000+00:00It's easy to be the observer and develop an opinio...It's easy to be the observer and develop an opinion about what a person should, or should not wear. <BR/><BR/>Who says we need to have an opinion about anyone's clothes but ours?Elizabethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03406942482508439839noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424698162327097126.post-37856248071270621042007-11-22T01:33:00.000+00:002007-11-22T01:33:00.000+00:00Linda - I must confess that I really am sort of bo...Linda - I must confess that I really am sort of bored with the entire "mutton/lamb" discussion and the reason is that by even ruminating on it, it gives people under the age of 40 a certain power that perhaps they do not deserve. <BR/>I really could not care less what some 30 or 35 (or 40 or 45 for that matter) year old thinks of how I dress. I dress to please myself. This is the same thinking as "fat women should wear only dark colors". I think women should wear clothing that makes them happy, that makes them feel sexy, clever and smart.<BR/>And if some 30 year old gives a harsh look to me in the street, well, bugger that. My old Mum, who'd been through and seen a tremendous lot in her time( spent WWII in Glasgow as a nurse midwife), dressed to the nines all the time, and as I recall it, wore metallic black knit the night that she had a massive heart attack. She developed multiple infarct dementia after that and certainly could not remember names, dates or places or what she should do on any given day or even moment (she used to get up 6 times a night, take a shower, change her clothes and make herself a new breakfast every single time when I was taking care of her), but she still knew great shoes, a good wool coat, and insisted on getting her hair done.<BR/>I do not care what young people think. Young people are self-absorbed. Their entire world consists of other young people. The rest of us could disappear in a moment and they would not miss a thing. In their world, they are the measure of what is beautiful and creative and wonderful.<BR/>Bugger that.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424698162327097126.post-36428039104902842102007-11-21T19:15:00.000+00:002007-11-21T19:15:00.000+00:00I never saw your original article about Agnes B. H...I never saw your original article about Agnes B. However, reading your comment about her "tousled blond mop" made me gasp with disbelief! The photo shows an absolutely Terrible Hair Moment. It may have looked better when you interviewed her, but as you have said in a previous post, when we arrive at a certain age, a great haircut is all-important. The touseled look is great on my 26 year old with her thick, glossy mane...not so good on me, or Agnes B.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424698162327097126.post-72172148213361212512007-11-21T17:23:00.000+00:002007-11-21T17:23:00.000+00:00Off topic: I finally remembered where I'd seen the...Off topic: I finally remembered where I'd seen the definitive high heels statement-- <BR/>http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2007/03/29/patriarchy-blamer-makes-straw-secondwaver-joke/<BR/>Of course, it's entirely in Twisty-ese, but she's funny. <BR/><BR/>Re. today's lamb jacket: change the skirt for pants, the super wide belt for a less wide one, and if you're a red patent leather person, go for it, whatever your age. Why not?danahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09902311224633734779noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424698162327097126.post-3098968331381279002007-11-21T14:20:00.000+00:002007-11-21T14:20:00.000+00:00I ranted earlier this year that it sometimes feels...I ranted <A HREF="http://www.unefemme.net/2007/06/too-old-for-baby-doll-too-young-to-die.html" REL="nofollow">earlier this year</A> that it sometimes feels that the majority of current designer clothes seem to be styled with teenagers in mind (like that red patent leather concoction), and that we older gals (with money to spend, mind you) are being ignored by most designers. I'd never realized there was an Agnes b behind "Agnes b." I've perused her store in BH on a couple of occasions; think I need to take a closer look.Susan Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16005855250089328310noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424698162327097126.post-28530253072331722232007-11-21T11:07:00.000+00:002007-11-21T11:07:00.000+00:00Thank you, anon. I am but an enthusiastic amateur....Thank you, anon. I am but an enthusiastic amateur.Linda Granthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09126115924247248057noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424698162327097126.post-17511992439288374422007-11-21T11:03:00.000+00:002007-11-21T11:03:00.000+00:00She used to get coverage a bit more back when I re...She used to get coverage a bit more back when I really followed fashion, 80s-90s (back again after a long break). Sadly, many of the smaller and more specialized houses/designers get hardly any coverage these days...at least in the US fashion media (see Azzedine Alaia...tho he's making something of a resurgence). This might be different in the UK. It seems as if more underground/unknowns get coverage there.<BR/><BR/>Linda I really love your references. You really know your stuff and that's so rare on most fashion blogs out there.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424698162327097126.post-39941769693039781512007-11-21T10:45:00.000+00:002007-11-21T10:45:00.000+00:00One of the reasons you hear so little of her is th...One of the reasons you hear so little of her is that she doesn't advertise. And if you don't advertise, you don't get magazine editorial. <BR/><BR/>I find her clothes cut a little on the small side for me but I really admire her simple pretty designs. I do have a few pairs of her shoes.<BR/><BR/>The nicest of her stores, by the way, is in Nice, just by the lift ascending to the gardens.Linda Granthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09126115924247248057noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424698162327097126.post-64290759034578506222007-11-21T10:31:00.000+00:002007-11-21T10:31:00.000+00:00Agnes B...ahh, a true great who you almost never h...Agnes B...ahh, a true great who you almost never hear about anymore. It's a shame she gets so little attention these days in the fashion media. Guess good design is out and she's not pushing enough (sh)IT bags.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com