tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424698162327097126.post1565202126134446468..comments2024-01-02T10:16:13.926+00:00Comments on The Thoughtful Dresser: At the salesLinda Granthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09126115924247248057noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424698162327097126.post-76044263039712932712008-03-13T04:19:00.000+00:002008-03-13T04:19:00.000+00:00If the average sized young woman is having no luck...If the average sized young woman is having no luck finding anything to buy, imagine being 5'1", a size 14-16 and living in the limbo between XL and 1x.<BR/><BR/>NOTHING fits in any direction. The rise is too long in most pants, price level makes little difference. If the length fits the circumference is too tight. It's a nightmare. <BR/><BR/>Thank god I can sew and knit or I'd be a ragamuffin. Still, it would be nice to be able to just go out and buy *something* even at full boat retail price.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424698162327097126.post-52571242995613048072008-02-05T13:29:00.000+00:002008-02-05T13:29:00.000+00:00I save buy not going to the sales. If I see someth...I save buy not going to the sales. If I see something I like, I´ll buy it straight away. Cashmere knitwear feels wonderful and I can buy 2-3 at the same time ,once I´ve found a nice model.I love beautiful and expensive lingerie too .I don´t have lots of clothes, but the ones I have are the best quality I can afford. Same goes with my bags. Actually I have a very nice feeling when I come home and realize that I didn´t buy anything.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424698162327097126.post-88548214764229799572008-02-04T14:33:00.000+00:002008-02-04T14:33:00.000+00:00I feel horrible when I go shopping. I am in my twe...I feel horrible when I go shopping. I am in my twenties and it's depressing that I can't find clothes that are cut right or designed or sewn well. I thank my stars that I am much the same size I was in my teens (I am very petite) because the stuff I would buy once in a blue moon make up the bulk of my wardrobe ... it's probably also a good thing I bought stuff in styles and colours that last and suit me and my figure. <BR/><BR/>But now I am "all grown up" and there are still a few nice things I'd love to be able to go out and buy but I can't because I find them in the shops and it's a) horrible quality and b) way overpriced stuff at that and c) definitely not designed for any woman. <BR/><BR/>So many of what I wear now is stuff from years ago, vintage or really really cheap. I am just lucky I manage to put it together so that I look decent.<BR/><BR/>And I agree with Meg - tailoring and advice in the department stores should be free after the kind of prices they charge. They should bring back the hat and gloves - your outfit just isn't finished without them. And why aren't we seeing anything original anymore?<BR/><BR/>I spend my money on books and dvds and chocolate. *sigh*Marisa Wikramanayakehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07382802423978627066noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424698162327097126.post-63214158561754064642008-01-27T13:14:00.000+00:002008-01-27T13:14:00.000+00:00Testify!! The last time I went shopping, I had no...Testify!! The last time I went shopping, I had none of the excitement that I used to have. Although it was only last weekend, it could have been 1990. MANY of the dresses and jackets looked exactly the same. Sure, classic styles don't change that much, but the fabric didn't appear any different, either!! The quality of materials is at an all-time low, and many department stores don't even offer tailoring. Not for free, anyway. So, why would anyone brave the traffic and the scores of shoppers invading your private thoughts with their cell phone talk for that?Meghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08389779304599394972noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424698162327097126.post-69347683002939708262008-01-23T19:29:00.000+00:002008-01-23T19:29:00.000+00:00i totally agree -- everything is as boring as bori...i totally agree -- everything is as boring as boring can be. i thought it was perhaps because i am approaching the time of being "a woman of a certain age"... but now i know, everything *is* boring as boring can be. i like the suggestion of using money i used to spend on clothes for lavishing on my face and body....bonnie-ann blackhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05897963557767227247noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424698162327097126.post-88512659741643291242008-01-22T19:42:00.000+00:002008-01-22T19:42:00.000+00:00I miss the times when I would stroll down the aven...I miss the times when I would stroll down the avenue with my mom with some beautiful outfit. She and I would be dressed to the hilt back in the 70-80s. I am only 35 years old so this is not in roman times. I miss feeling great because of what I am wearing. Back then I never felt like something was too tight or short. Colors and fabrics used to complement your body not show it or hide it. I have recently stopped shopping at retail shops. I am so happy that this blog is out. I thought I was going crazy. Fashion is not fashion anymore. I don't know what it is but it is definitely not fashion. Thank you, thank you, thank you for this blog. It is high time somebody said something about it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424698162327097126.post-48662030576747176892008-01-22T19:12:00.000+00:002008-01-22T19:12:00.000+00:00So true... but I will never forget when I learned ...So true... but I will never forget when I learned that people do not dictate fashion; they either accept or reject what is presented to them.<BR/><BR/>This is an important point. Nothing changes unless/until people stop buying.mimi jacksonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09046101113822427313noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424698162327097126.post-9752727879505168872008-01-21T15:34:00.000+00:002008-01-21T15:34:00.000+00:00You are so right. This is how I have been feeling...You are so right. This is how I have been feeling for a year now. I get excited about something (online- it's where I do a lot of my shopping) but am usually disappointed when I receive it in person. And when I actually go to the stores, I usually walk away empty handed or with a pair of shoes because Louboutins and YSLs rarely disappoint! So now I am a girl with hundreds of bags and shoes but nothing to wear with them. Sigh... I hope the trend of super-trends will die down. I just want beautifully made clothes that are stylish yet classic. I am not interested in shocking or making any statements. Is that too much to ask?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424698162327097126.post-38428408899142766292008-01-21T06:02:00.000+00:002008-01-21T06:02:00.000+00:00Amen! I am of the same opinion as Phyllis. I wil...Amen! I am of the same opinion as Phyllis. I will "invest" in my hair, skin treatments, gym/trainor, but I bought almost no RTW clothing in 2007 (or 2008). Instead, I spend on beautiful, unusual fabric and make something special for myself. LindaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424698162327097126.post-14576501497349053032008-01-21T00:53:00.000+00:002008-01-21T00:53:00.000+00:00I found your blog through the sewing divas site. I...I found your blog through the sewing divas site. I totally agree with you. Last fall I said I have to LOVE something before I will buy it.if I like it I can look at it but I have to really LOVE it to buy it. Funny, this year I purchased hardly anything for the very reasons you gave. There isn't anything out there that is just so fantastic that I just have to have it. I won't even go to the way things are made and the price they are charging for it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424698162327097126.post-52767451419148076192008-01-20T15:23:00.000+00:002008-01-20T15:23:00.000+00:00Aarggh, I'm so with you. There seems to be no tai...Aarggh, I'm so with you. There seems to be no <I>tailoring </I>anymore. Either clothes are designed to fit like potato sacks, or the manufacturers rely on skin-tight stretch fabric to give the garment any shape. I've also made a committment to eschew "junk food clothing" which leaves little else.Susan Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16005855250089328310noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424698162327097126.post-4453911510147832542008-01-20T14:02:00.000+00:002008-01-20T14:02:00.000+00:00So true - shopping used to be fun, now it's just d...So true - shopping used to be fun, now it's just depressing. I remember ten years ago I would go window shopping for fun and sometimes even try on something without wanting to buy it. Everything was pretty and everything fitted.<BR/>Today it's just awful and boring, I end up buying new versions of my old standards because I can't find anything new I like. <BR/>And god help me if I need a new dress for a special occasion - it's a nightmare that can last for weeks, when I'm cruising through all the shops I like, all the shops I have bought something in the last three years and in utter desperation all the shops that exist in my town, sometimes followed by shops in the biggest city in my country. <BR/>And then I usually wear the old, trusted dress which I've worn on oh-too-many-special-events that I've started to hate it a little.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424698162327097126.post-58288808466787983402008-01-20T08:23:00.000+00:002008-01-20T08:23:00.000+00:00No, Richard Ward in Duke of York's Square, opposit...No, Richard Ward in Duke of York's Square, opposite Peter JonesLinda Granthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09126115924247248057noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424698162327097126.post-57453330203636139512008-01-20T01:56:00.000+00:002008-01-20T01:56:00.000+00:00Agreed.Agreed.Elizabethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03406942482508439839noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424698162327097126.post-89847741394441984522008-01-20T01:38:00.000+00:002008-01-20T01:38:00.000+00:00I'm remembering my wonderful summers in and around...I'm remembering my wonderful summers in and around Sloane Square in the not-too-distant past. Were you at Toni and Guy (the salon I recall in the square)? I'd make my rounds from Sloane Square Tile to Emma Hope, and then down to Trotters and Daisy and Tom (or Tom and Daisy; j'oublie, but surely not named after the Buchannans?!). And yes, I had a one-year-old in the pram at the time, so my shopping was for shoes or tiles (along with darling little-girl clothes).Miss Cavendishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17461488799928956875noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424698162327097126.post-65736593534408348782008-01-19T23:24:00.000+00:002008-01-19T23:24:00.000+00:00This is how I shop! And I share your pain. Maybe ...This is how I shop! And I share your pain. Maybe this is why I’d rather spend my disposable income on hair/skin treatments and cosmetics ; I feel the end result and the level of personal attention I receive makes the price a value-add for me. I also think we’re in an era of true innovation in those industries, and I find this way more exciting than what is happening fashion right now.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424698162327097126.post-67628622571233079422008-01-19T21:40:00.000+00:002008-01-19T21:40:00.000+00:00I agree,my gripe is that fashion is too often desi...I agree,my gripe is that fashion is too often designed and cut for the slim body shape and because retailers are so quick to copy and paste from catwalk to the store they don't seem to focus on translating trends to fit/suit real womens body shape. I too am so tired of the short tunic and have no symapathy for retailers left with rail after rail of uninspired copy cat fashion. Stores need to make a personal response not a copy. will they ever learn?indigo16https://www.blogger.com/profile/16982477144454205765noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7424698162327097126.post-18186190747697483182008-01-19T19:22:00.000+00:002008-01-19T19:22:00.000+00:00You know, I think you're right. Clothes used to re...You know, I think you're right. Clothes used to really inspire me, but very little interests me at the moment - probably why I spend all my cash on lingerie.<BR/><BR/>I don't know who designers think they're designing for these days, but it certainly doesn't seem to be women.<BR/><BR/>PussGlamourpusshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01450175254756849062noreply@blogger.com